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After a wonderful week on vacation, I had to ease back into reality. On vacation, my priority was spending quality time with my family. I created a plan to fit my work in during non-peak family hours and focus on my husband and boys. I ended my vacation with a sense of accomplishment knowing I had effectively balanced my work priorities while also enjoying the precious time with my family.
When I sat down and started planning my upcoming work week, I felt swallowed up by a long list of tasks and catch-up work. The warm and fuzzy vacation buzz was quickly wearing off and I immediately felt like all that relaxation and time with family was a distant memory.
Then I stopped myself from the anxiety rush. My internal voice spoke up loud and clear and reminded me that I get to call the shots. I am the boss and I am going to figure out how to transition back to reality and prioritize my key to-do’s in a manner that makes sense. I would not be driven by the false pursuit of perfection and the urge to jump head first back into life away from the beach.
I reminded myself that the happiness I gained from my vacation would not be diluted if laundry doesn’t get done, if the fridge is a little bare or if I am not multi-tasking 100 things at one time.
BALANCING ACT.
So, how do we transition back to “real life” without it being painful or stressful? My first inclination is to turn into a spaz by trying to take on too many responsibilities and fixating on the things that seem like a priority, when, in reality, they are not.
Priority identification and shifting are key to balancing what you NEED to get done versus the activities you WANT to get done.
Creating clear priorities is key and will assist in identifying the immediate goals and tasks that are critical. This, in turn, will also help you manage your limited time and be less stressed.
KEY STEPS IN PRIORITY SHIFTING.
- Write a list of all the things you do on a regular basis.
- Prioritize your list based on what needs your immediate attention and what can wait until later.
- Ask yourself: What do I need to accomplish in the next 24, 48 and 72 hours?
- Focus on importance, not urgency.
- Delegate when it makes sense.
- There’s always tomorrow!
ARE YOU READY TO FIND YOUR MID-LIFE HUSTLE?
What does this year have in store for you? Are you ready to find that gig that matches your wants and needs? It’s the time to take on new challenges and take risks that will deliver big rewards…and not just in your bank account.
This is EXACTLY what i needed to hear this morning! I’m so busy running around, I need to set my priorities and make a list of what needs to really get done today, and what can wait. You’ve encouraged me to get my ducks in a row!! xoxo
Glad to shed some perspective. We all have moments where we can’t focus or get overwhelmed but it’s human. Realization that we can’t do it all is step 1!! Have a great day
Great insights and a reminder perfect for keeping one stress free. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you so much for reading and your feedback. We all struggle and want stress-free lives but it’s a marathon not a sprint. Real lives here!!
The struggle is real! Great tips
So true! Everyday can be a struggle if you let it!
This is one of my hardest things to do is balance work and kids. I find when I get things done while they are still asleep it works out to be easier. Great info.
You are so right! The mom-life is hard hands down and trying to fit it all in!! Focus and prioritize and it will fall in to place
Great reminder of great perspective on moving forward!
Exactly and taking control vs your anxiety controlling you!
Great tips! It is easy to get overwhelmed with things! Glad you had a great Vacation!!
The Momlife is always a challenge we are always doing 100 things. Stop, process, proceed!
Love this blog!!! So well written and insightful!! Sometimes we all get so caught up!! Thanks for the roadmap!!
Parenthood & mom life is hard to navigate at times, but with in reflection and a roadmap we can be better and feel better when we are in control!
thanks
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As always, your message is spot on! I will definitely revisit this after MY vacation in order to stop the spaz spiral, LOL.
Yes and thank you! Together we can learn great things from one another!
This is fantastic Natasha!! I really need this!! Between Family, work, getting my CEU’s done for Certified Medical Assisting, my Avon Business and a few extras, it is really hard to prioritize. They are all so important!! It really helped reading this. I Loved It!!!
I am so glad this is helpful! Prioritizing is not easy but if you can work at time-blocking and creating time for you in the mix you will be able to get it all done! Thank you for check this out!
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This is great, Natasha! Thank you!
You are welcome!! Glad you enjoyed it!